If I walked away with anything that night it was this: You don't need to plan for 10 or 20 years. You only need to look about 5 years down the road! Simple thinking really but it was like someone stepped in and opened up the hidden exit I had been rolling past on each subsequent circuit in my mind and - PING - I popped out like a bingo ball - Under the O - OH!
Five years - I can do five years. Why, I will still be a 60-ish person in five years. Still travelling; still hosting family and friends; still walking the neighborhood and still living in my house! That wasn't so hard. There are a few details to be ironed out but what a relief to take on only one chunk of the journey.
I read recently on "Satisfying Retirement" that retirement isn't a destination but just the continuation of the rest of your life. I like that picture - I have been on an amazing journey and have especially embraced the last two years of living an authentic me! I have hit the age when I have quit looking for a new grey hair on my head and started anticipating a new smile line crinkling my much wiser face. I have accepted that I will never arrive - I will just BE - and that is an amazing place!
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